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Therianthropy and Flirting
« Thread Started on Mar 13, 2011, 3:38am »

I don't know what it is, but I seem to be having trouble fitting into the mold of what society thinks a woman should act like. Okay, I know that was super vague, but I'm just frustrated and ranting right now. It all started when I flirted with this guy I like. Our conversation soon deteriorated, as he acted like I wasn’t supposed to show my attraction, being the woman I am. It’s not like I don’t have feelings! In fact, my more basic urges have been a problem because women in American society are supposed to be sexually coy. “Unfortunately”, I’m sexually liberated (my wolf-side helped with that one), but must suppress it lest I want to be taken advantage of sexually by men. In other words, I have a really high sex drive, and I’m sick of being punished or labeled for it by society as something bad. I’m not saying that I operate with a vulgarity or whorishness, but If I like someone I will tell them and be more direct (without running after a man, or buying him expensive things, etc.). I still act like a lady, and still will let the man provide for me.
As a wolf, I feel it is easier to just go for things that you want without too much thought, kind of like a predator-prey relationship. My wolf side is a predator. I’m not talking about acting desperate here. I think there is a huge difference in the aura that a desperate woman gives off…one of lacking confidence. I have no problem in the confidence department, and can generally interact on a comfortable level with a lot of non-therians. I am socially popular in a lot of aspects. The problem is that men don't like being prey, and I perfectly know this, and am really trying hard to accommodate it. But, I feel like if I suppress this part of my personality and ultimately my therianthropy that I will end up a nutcase. It’s not in my nature to just sit back and do nothing. And, it’s just fun. It’s more of a conquest. Anyway, I seriously need advice on how to interact with non-therian men. I’m assuming most of my crushes have been non-therian, and I feel that there is something about my aura or confidence or “forwardness” or whatever you want to call it that’s putting them off, because apparently we don’t speak the same language.
I've noticed that it seems like my non-therian girlfriends have an easier time keeping that "predator-mode" thing out of the equation entirely. Even my more confident girlfriends. It seems to be working for them. So I suspect that this is an aspect of my therianthropy.

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Re: Therianthropy and Flirting
« Reply #1 on Mar 13, 2011, 8:57pm »

Maybe look up on YouTube about flirting. Anyway flirting hasn't been the first question asked of being too forward as a female. Cheak online. There you may find what you need without feeling embarrassed about asking more sexual info.

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Re: Therianthropy and Flirting
« Reply #2 on Mar 13, 2011, 10:08pm »

Being a married lady myself I say don't change anything. If these men can't handle who you are then they weren't right for you anyway. But if you're really concerned about it then try suppressing your therian nature at first and then little by little ease it into the relationship.
I got my man by just being myself and I'm happier than I've ever been in my life with him. When you can really open up then you have a real friend and that friend becomes real partner material. :3

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Re: Therianthropy and Flirting
« Reply #3 on Mar 18, 2011, 1:59am »

This is coming from a guy, it would make my day for a girl to approch me

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Re: Therianthropy and Flirting
« Reply #4 on May 31, 2011, 9:03am »

I need hints like friggen brick thrown at me I can tell a psychopath from a mile away (they smell like goats no lie and you don't need to sense shift I really can't very well)but reading a women forget it.We could use more ladies like you it makes it much less complicated.You are as God made you Beautiful.

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Re: Therianthropy and Flirting
« Reply #5 on Jun 1, 2011, 4:31am »

It's normal. Maybe get some info on line. I bet even on YouTube there is some.

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Re: Therianthropy and Flirting
« Reply #6 on Jun 1, 2011, 10:00am »

I can completely relate with you on this issue. I'm pretty sure my wolf aided in scaring away my last boyfriend who was as non therian as they come. That being said however, I can assure you there are non-therian men out there who are willing to listen and understand perhaps even find it attractive, something new and exotic. That said, just be yourself denying ones on nature is a slow soul killer. I have faith you will find someone, God would not have put the desire for companionship in your heart if it were not meant to be fulfilled.

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Re: Therianthropy and Flirting
« Reply #7 on Dec 20, 2011, 12:29pm »

I know exactly how you feel, sweetie. I too am a wolf therian. And my God.... is it ever flirtatious, and apt to get me in trouble if I let it "run loose," especially when it comes to dating. Like you, it also increases my sex drive and likelihood to "hit the sack with someone I love out of my wolf loyalty and passion," rather than wait until I am engaged (again). I am extremely loyal, and affectionate, and our wolf side makes us moreso. We want to show our mates how loyal and faithful we are, but this gets us in trouble...

I found it best to try to refrain from my wolfish behaviors until I can find a mate who I know will be loyal to me... ie: I am going to try my best to wait before hitting the sack until I am engaged again. This in and of itself is a hard task, as I at times get my moments where I feel like "I go into heat" as a wolf..... and this makes it hard to resist any mate I am with at that point in time. But nevertheless, I am going to fight to get the right man for me, and not be taken advantage of again... the pain from being used is just not worth the few moments of "love making."

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Re: Therianthropy and Flirting
« Reply #8 on Dec 27, 2011, 5:52pm »

Modern society has very strong roles for males and females. On the other hand, in my experience, the Therian community doesn't subscribe to those roles and men and women tend to act very much alike (in comparison to nonTherians). There are real physiological differences and, therefore, real behavioral differences - but the inherent behavioral differences are nowhere near what society prescribes.

I would say, don't change, but be aware of who you're interacting with and accommodate their expectations.

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Re: Therianthropy and Flirting
« Reply #9 on Dec 29, 2011, 7:51am »

Too direct? I would love it if a female who liked me would just walk up to me and say "I like you."! I think that most Human females are way too indirect. I mean, if they want something, they have to ask for it! With words, not body language.
But I do agree with Kai, if the person really loves you, it shouldn't matter what you are, they should love you anyways.
Prey? I would love it to be a females 'prey' as you said it, a nice female, one that would actually love me for me, just as God does. I don't ever really understand why Humans must have relationships that don't last, and they know they won't. It puzzles me.

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Re: Therianthropy and Flirting
« Reply #10 on Dec 29, 2011, 10:44am »

Apparently, many human women... and even some men.. find me very attractive. I've been told that some girl was giving me signs, but I don't get it, We're on different wavelengths.

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